Men, unlike women, are more excited by physical contact with a woman, by physical components. For them, a woman's appearance is very important. While emotional components and the presence of a spiritual connection are important to women, they often turn a blind eye to physical imperfections. It is important for her to be sure that she is loved and that her partner will not leave her after sexual intercourse. Arousal itself, the desire for sex, is part of the strongest instinct - the instinct of procreation.
Here everything is transparent, if a woman gets pregnant, she will need the help of a male while she raises the child. And at this time a man can impregnate an infinite number of females. It sounds cynical, but that's natureinstinctprocreation of a man's lineage: leaving behind as many healthy descendants as possible. Therefore, a man's arousal has a simpler mechanism.
How does a man experience arousal?
It is not for nothing that they say that a man cannot reason sensibly when there is a woman nearby who excites him. He actually starts to think worse at this moment. Indicators of sexual arousalfor men they are:
- Erection. Perhaps the most surprising and evident manifestation. But an erection doesn't just happen when you're aroused: it can simply be a full bladder or a morning erection;
- Rapid pulseThanks to it, breathing also becomes more frequent;
- Dilated pupils, the gaze itself becomes glassy;
- Editusualstampvoices, becomes hoarse and panting;
- Redness of the skin, a strong redness may appear on the face;
Arousal can build and increase if sexual intercourse does not occur immediately. But you should not drag out this game, otherwise the excitement will begin to decrease or premature ejaculation will occur.
What exactly turns a man on?
It would seem that it is enough to undress and the man is ready. But not everything is so simple and real excitement is the result of a combination ofmany factors. One of them, of course, is that a man should find a woman attractive.
It determines it at the animal level.He is attracted tohis appearance, the timbre of his voice, his sense of smell, his facial expressions, the plasticity of his movements. But beyond that, certain actions, a woman's body and even the colors of her clothes can drive him crazy.
Actions that excite
There are actions on the part of a woman that can stimulate an already existing passion or even generate a new one:
- A woman's willingness to surrenderalways and everywhere, but only to a certain man. The knowledge that the partner is accommodating and that such a treasure is only in her hands fuels the man's desire.
- Spontaneous caresses, a woman's initiative. If she suddenly starts caressing him on her own, and even in a place not entirely suitable for this, for example in an elevator, then the man may completely lose his mind.
- View. A man can really get excited by the inviting look of a woman, who says: "Come to me, try to conquer me, maybe I won't mind. "
- Keep it new. Men are generally enthusiastic about everything new. A new place for possible sex, a new style of clothing for his partner, his new perfume, his hairstyle.
- Stimulation of erogenous zones. Men have fewer of them than women, but they still exist. In addition to intimate places, most often this is the back of the neck, auricle and abdomen.
- Wear sexy clothes. Whatever anyone says, certain clothes excite men, even if they don't fit everywhere. These are mainly tight-fitting dresses made of thin fabric or leather, short minis and a deep neckline.
- Gait, in which the hips sway and the chest sways will definitely excite a man.
- Nice plasticdancegirls with a beautiful figure. Especially if she slowly undresses while she does it.
Female body and excitement
First of all, man perceivesoverall image, as the totality of all physical data. And if the image catches his attention, he looks at it and notices the details. Looking at certain parts of the body has a particularly stimulating effect.
Very often thisbutt and breasts. There are, of course, aesthetes who get excited about ankles or ears, but this is rather a feature. What turns you on the most is very individual, some might be more turned on by the breasts and others by the buttocks. Many people are still turned on by the belly, and not by the abs, but by a small soft belly.
Sexual positions
Preference in poses depends ontemperamentin bed and how much the partner costs.
- Missionary position. If it is sex between people who really miss it, the man will most likely be more excited by this position. This way he can caress her breasts, caress her hair and face and kiss the woman on the lips.
- Like a dogORdoggy style. There is something animalistic about this position and this moment excites a man during sex.
- Girl on top, both facing the partner and vice versa. At the moment of intercourse, the woman controls everything: the depth of insertion, the rhythm and when to stop, all this depends on her, this is what makes this position special. And the view that opens before a man will not leave him indifferent.
- Near the wall. There is something cinematic about this pose. Men love this position for its entertainment value, although in itself it is not very comfortable and the introduction is not maximum.
What is especially important is that the man loves to see his partner during sex, so he prefers all positions in which the details of what is happening are as visible as possible. And the light should be on and the partner should be completely undressed.
What colors can excite a man?
A naked body excites you already at the moment of sex. But first, a man is interested in undressing a woman, first down to her underwear and then completely. It's also importantwhat colourHe will wear toiletries and underwear.
When choosing underwear and clothes, women should know what excites men the mostred,blackANDviolacolors of underwear and clothes. These colors promise a man experience and sensuality in bed. AwhiteANDbeigethe colors excite those who love very young and inexperienced girls.
Why men are turned on by women's breasts
It's no secret that lush and high breasts excites almost all men. But if you think about it, what is so special, why, for example, another part of the body does not light up? From the point of viewbiology- this is the biggest mystery, in other mammals the breasts increase exclusively before feeding, and they do not attract males, but only cubs. And in sexually mature human females it is always greater and men react with excitement.
Reasonsthere could be several:
- In women, the nipples and the breast itself are the strongesterogenous zoneand men want to excite women by caressing their breasts.
- It is customary for people to hide their breasts, and the forbidden fruit is sweet.
- Only people have sex in front of each other.
- Breasts are thingdistinguishesman and woman and what is associated with feminine warmth.
- And also, most likely, this is precisely the pointinstinctprocreation. The main purpose of the breast is to nourish babies. And a woman's large breasts subconsciously tell her that she will feed her offspring well. But to be honest, this is actually not always the case; the amount of milk does not depend on the size of the breast. This is what subconsciously attracts men. After all, the very desire to mate is the desire to continue the race, to leave offspring.